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Ask Amy: It was a great party, but it will be awkward when we next see these people

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

Dear Amy: We had a party tonight.It’s not easy to throw parties – from planning, setting up the house, buying and preparing food, etc.First, I would like to remind folks that it’s common courtesy to respond. There were eight people who didn’t even RSVP.Second, out of 35 people who responded yes, two canceled the night before, two canceled two minutes before the party started, and six were no-shows.Shame on them.We did have a great time, loved the people who attended, and made some great memories; however, the leftover food is a waste and the inconsiderate “friends” left us feeling embarrassed and sad.Are people really that selfish and clueless?What do we say to these people the next time we see them?Done Entertaining in DenverDear Done: Yes, it is common courtesy to respond to an invitation.And yes, common courtesy isn’t all that common.Hosts should anticipate and be prepared for some last-minute cancellations; our increased awareness of the transmission of viruses makes...

Harriette Cole: My mom takes money from my bank account to give to my siblings

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a high school student facing a situation that I’m not sure how to handle.My mother and I have a custodial bank account, and while she has access to my account, I am not allowed to see hers.Related ArticlesAdvice | Harriette Cole: Everyone wants my success tips, but they don’t really care about me Advice | Harriette Cole: Should I take my kids all this way to see their flaky father? Advice | Harriette Cole: My friend hit my car while he was helping me move. Who pays for it? Advice | Harriette Cole: This is my road trip, and she keeps butting in Advice | Harriette Cole: This B-list celebrity is a drag on our event The problem is that sometimes she sends money from my account to my siblings without informing me beforehand. She usually pays me back. It’s becoming frustrating, and I’m starting to feel like I’m not in control of my own finances.Do I have a rig...

‘We will be missing her forever’: Montgomery Co. man sentenced to 40 years for wife’s murder

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

Nerlande Foreste's brother described her as "an amazing human being." (Courtesy Montgomery County State's Attorney's Office)(Carrera, Gabriel) Nerlande Foreste's brother described her as "an amazing human being." (Courtesy Montgomery County State's Attorney's Office)(Carrera, Gabriel) A Montgomery County man was sentenced to 40 years in prison for the 2019 murder of his wife Friday afternoon, in a historic “no-body” case that largely relied on his own daughter’s testimony against him.Jean J. Pierre, 50, was convicted of second-degree murder by a jury in May 2023. According to State’s Attorney John McCarthy, this is only the third time in Maryland history that there has been a murder convict...

West Ham announces sale of Declan Rice for British record fee. Arsenal is his likely destination

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

LONDON (AP) — West Ham announced the departure of Declan Rice on Saturday for what the club said would be a British-record transfer fee. Arsenal was the England midfielder’s likely destination.West Ham didn’t reveal the team Rice would be joining or the fee in a statement that was accompanied by a message from the player to West Ham’s fans, saying it was a “tough” decision driven by his “ambition to play at the very highest level of the game.”“Playing on the opposite team to West Ham for the first time will be an unusual experience,” the 24-year-old Rice said. “I’m not sure yet exactly how I will feel, but I also know you will all understand and respect that my professional loyalties have to now lie with my new club.”Arsenal is reportedly paying an initial fee of 100 million pounds ($131 million) for Rice, who spent nine years with West Ham. There are also likely to be add-ons to the fee.The reported initial fee is the same as the British-record sum that Manchester...

DC-area storm damage stopped trains for hours, knocked off power for thousands

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

Withering storms hit the District, Maryland and Virginia on Friday night. There were serious impacts on traffic and power for consumers across the region. Officials also reported cleanup efforts throughout the night, after significant damage from the storms.Damages included the roof being torn off a District building, several downed trees and powerlines in Prince George’s and Montgomery County, Maryland, and even hail in northern Virginia. There were 7,000 without power in the D.C. area at one point on Friday night, that number went down to a little over 1,000 by Saturday morning.After the rain and winds had calmed, the thunderstorm’s impact continued to be felt by local commuters and families through early Saturday morningAmtrak trains were delayed between Fairfax Station and Manassas near Burke, Virginia. The Crescent Train 19, train 171 and train 66 were stopped near Burke, Virginia, while debris was on the track. Some customers tell WTOP they were stuck for hours wit...

Steamy Storms this Weekend

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

It sure has been quite the hot stretch of weather this July in South Florida, with Marathon tying its all-time record high temperature of 99F on Thursday while Miami records its longest streak of 94F+ highs over the last 10 days!More heat is guaranteed this weekend with a Heat Advisory in effect through at least Sunday evening for Miami-Dade and Broward Counties for peak feels-like temperatures up to 110F. This means the heat will be dangerous and it will remain important to stay hydrated with water and to take frequent breaks inside.There is also a Heat Advisory issued for the Florida Keys from 10AM through 6PM today for feels-like temperatures up to 112F.As far as our forecast on Saturday is concerned, it will feature times of sunshine with scattered thunderstorms likely, especially during the early to mid afternoon hours. With a light breeze out of the south-southeast, that will allow for storms to setup across much of the metro and will cause temperatures to quickly warm up, pea...

China asks EU to ‘clarify’ position on strategic relations

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

A Chinese top diplomat has told the EU’s foreign affairs chief Josep Borrell that the EU should “clarify” its vision of relations between the two sides. Wang Yi, director of China’s Office of the Central Commission for Foreign Affairs, met Borrell on the sidelines of a meeting of Southeast Asian nations in Jakarta on Friday — a couple of weeks after EU leaders agreed to reduce and “de-risk” their dependency on China. “The EU side should … clarify the positioning of the strategic partnership between the two sides, and promote China-EU relations to move forward,” Wang was quoted by China’s Foreign Ministry as telling Borrell, Reuters reported on Saturday. “It should not vacillate, let alone encourage words and deeds that turn the clock back,” Wang said.The EU and China are embroiled in a tit-for-tat trade war, with both sides targeting parts of the semiconductor supply chain. First, the Netherlands imposed export ...

Adley Rutschman impressed at the Home Run Derby. But who would win a homer contest among just Orioles players?

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

Baseball fans weren’t the only ones in awe watching Adley Rutschman’s switch-hitting spectacle at the Home Run Derby. His teammates were, too.“That was electric,” first baseman Ryan O’Hearn said.Rutschman lost in the first round to Luis Robert Jr. of the Chicago White Sox, but his 27-homer performance was the latest star-worthy moment in the still-nascent career of Baltimore’s All-Star catcher. While Rutschman’s teammates weren’t surprised by his success, his profile isn’t that of a typical Home Run Derby candidate. Rutschman’s plate discipline and contact ability are better traits than his power, as he’s hit just 25 long balls in 200 career games.That doesn’t mean anything to O’Hearn, though. If the Orioles had their own home run contest, O’Hearn would put his money on Rutschman — especially after seeing his success on the big stage Monday.“Probably Adley,” O’Hearn said when ...

Lucas: Tunnel vision headache

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

Welcome to Big Dig II.Well, not exactly, but close enough when you figure in the hellish traffic in downtown Boston and the environs as the result of the shutdown of the much-used Sumner Tunnel.Besides, work on the tunnel will hopefully be completed by the end of August. The Big Dig was around for years.And the cost is a little different. The Big Dig, a federal project which changed the face of Boston, was initially estimated to cost $2.5 billion when it began in 1991. It ended up costing a whopping $14.8 billion when it was completed in 1997.The Sumner Tunnel is costing a paltry $160 million in state money, which amounts to spare change compared the Big DigSurprisingly upon completion of the Big Dig, no one was indicted or went to jail.It was at the time the most expensive public works project in the country.And that huge cost overruns are one reason why the Biden administration is reluctant to come up with any of the $4 billion it is estimated to replace the two functionally obsol...

Boston councilor Kendra Lara loses out on city union endorsement amid controversy

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:37:51 GMT

Embattled District 6 Councilor Kendra Lara’s vote to support a budget that would have slashed millions from essential city services cost her the endorsement of a union that represents roughly 1,700 city workers.The Boston Presidents’ Committee of the American Federation of State, County and Municipal Employees, endorsed Lara in the 2021 general election, but opted to back one of her opponents, William King, this time around.The endorsement, announced by King in a Wednesday campaign email and confirmed by an AFSCME Council 93 representative, comes two months ahead of the Sept. 12 preliminary election, and is somewhat of a rarity in Boston politics, a former city official told the Herald.“It’s rare that in a three-person contest with an incumbent that they would have endorsed the challenger,” said Larry DiCara, a former City Council president and longtime observer of Boston politics. “The very fact that anybody is endorsing six weeks ahead of the preliminary, that means something is s...