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Dear Abby: Her parents take in her ex after divorce

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

Dear Abby: I am 49 and have been divorced for 20 years. When we first separated, my ex moved in with my parents while I struggled to raise my four kids. He stayed there for seven years. He moved out until a year and a half ago. Again, my parents have allowed him back in!While I understand that they shouldn’t have had to cease contact because of the divorce, I don’t feel it’s right for him to be living there. This has caused an ongoing rift between my family and me because I have let them know that it hurts me.My parents pretty much told me my feelings don’t matter. I was homeless living in my car for a few weeks while it was bitter cold and snowing. But I’m not supposed to be upset that he’s nice and warm, eating prepared meals, showering and using their vehicles for next to nothing? He has had a full-time job for 10 years.I feel my parents are disrespectful, hurtful and rude toward me. What are your thoughts about what I should do or how to handl...

San Diego police investigating after man found shot in back

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- San Diego police are investigating after a man was found in City Heights on Sunday with an apparent gunshot wound to his back, the department said.SDPD was dispatched to the scene at the intersection of Altadena Avenue and Wightman Street after a call came in at 7:25 p.m. Officers arrived to find one individual with a wound to his back.The man was pronounced dead on scene. Homicide Unit detectives were called to investigate.Circumstances surrounding the incident remain under investigation by SDPD. It is not known if the victim or a possible suspect has been identified by law enforcement.This is a developing story. Check back for updates.

Padres fans reach new high after breaking record for sellout games

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- Despite the ups and downs the Padres have had this season, faith in the Friars has never been stronger as fans hit a new Petco Park landmark this weekend.On Sunday, fans packed the stands at the downtown stadium for the Padres' final game in a three game series against the Texas Rangers. With the 42,943 people in attendance, the team hit their 45th sellout this season at the game -- a new franchise record.The previous record was last year's 26 sellouts in the downtown stadium. Padres fans surpassed it last month with two full-house games against the Tampa Bay Rays.Two out of the three games during the series against the Rangers tacked on another sellout to this year's Petco Park record. The first sellout during the weekend was during Saturday's 4-0 win, recording about 42,677 people in attendance. Padres release 2024 Spring Training Schedule While the Padres swept their opponent, Friday's 7-1 game had an attendance that was just shy of the sellout threshold for the 42...

47-year-old man in Sheriff's custody dies after found unresponsive in cell

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- A 47-year-old inmate at a county detention facility died on Saturday, about 10 days after he was found unresponsive in his cell, according to the San Diego County Sheriff's Office.Jonathan McDowell, a Ramona resident, passed away at Scripps Mercy Hospital around 5 p.m., SDSO said in a news release. He had been transported to the hospital on July 19 after deputies found him unresponsive in his cell at the Vista Detention Facility. Authorities said jail medical staff provided attempted life-saving measures, including CPR, use of Naloxone and an AED device. McDowell's passing marks the 11th in-custody death reported by the law enforcement agency this year. Nearly 100 weapons collected at gun safety event: SDSO "We extend our sympathies to the McDowell family and those affected by his death," SDSO officials said in the release. A Sheriff’s Family Liaison officer will be supporting the family as they deal with the loss of a loved one, they continued.McDowell had been in cu...

South Korean dog meat farmers push back against growing moves to outlaw their industry

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

PYEONGTAEK, South Korea (AP) — The dogs bark and stare as Kim Jong-kil approaches the rusty cages housing the large, short-haired animals he sells for their meat. Kim opens a door and pets one dog’s neck and chest.Kim says he’s proud of the dog meat farm that has supported his family for 27 years, but is upset over growing attempts by politicians and activists to outlaw the business, which he is turning over to his children.“It’s more than just feeling bad. I absolutely oppose these moves, and we’ll mobilize all our means to resist it,” Kim, 57, said in an interview at his farm in Pyeongtaek city, just south of Seoul.Dog meat consumption is a centuries-old practice on the Korean Peninsula and has long been viewed as a source of stamina on hot summer days. It’s neither explicitly banned nor legalized in South Korea, but more and more people want it prohibited. There’s increasing public awareness of animal rights and worries about South Korea’s international image. The ant...

Stock market today: Asia shares gain after Wall St rally as investors pin hopes on China stimulus

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

BANGKOK (AP) — Shares were mostly higher in Asia on Monday after Wall Street got back to climbing following more encouraging profit reports and the latest signal that inflation is loosening its chokehold on the economy.Sentiment also has been boosted by revived hopes for more stimulus from Beijing for the sluggish Chinese economy. Chinese factory activity contracted in July as export orders shrank, a survey showed, adding to pressure on the ruling Communist Party to reverse an economic slowdown.A purchasing managers’ index issued by the national statistics agency and an industry group improved to 49.3 from June’s 49 on a 100-point scale but was below the 50-point level that shows activity contracting.“The PMI surveys suggest that China’s economic recovery continued to lose momentum in July,” Julian Evans-Pritchard of Capital Economics said in a commentary. “Looking forward, policy support is needed to prevent China’s economy from slipping into a recession, not least because external...

Trump could be indicted soon in Georgia. Here’s a look at that investigation

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

ATLANTA (AP) — A Georgia prosecutor is expected to seek a grand jury indictment in the coming weeks in her investigation into efforts by Donald Trump and his allies to overturn the former president’s 2020 election loss.Fulton County District Attorney Fani Willis began investigating more than two years ago, shortly after a recording was released of a January 2021 phone call Trump made to Georgia’s secretary of state.Willis has strongly hinted that any indictment would come between July 31 and August 18. One of two grand juries seated July 11 is expected to hear the case.If Trump is indicted by a Georgia grand jury, it would add to a growing list of legal troubles as he campaigns for president. Trump is set to go to trial in New York in March to face state charges related to hush-money payments made during the 2016 presidential campaign. And he has another trial scheduled for May on federal charges related to his handling of classified documents. He has pleaded not guilty ...

China factory activity shrinks in July, adding to pressure to reverse economic slump

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

BEIJING (AP) — Chinese factory activity contracted in July as export orders shrank, a survey showed Monday, adding to pressure on the ruling Communist Party to reverse an economic slowdown.A purchasing managers’ index issued by the national statistics agency and an industry group improved to 49.3 from June’s 49 on a 100-point scale but was below the 50-point level that shows activity contracting.“China’s manufacturing PMI remained in contraction, albeit a softer pace, as the drag from the external sector deepened,” Erin Xin of HSBC said in a report. That puts “more pressure on Beijing to support growth through both fiscal and monetary measures.”Chinese leaders are trying to revive economic activity by promising to support entrepreneurs who generate jobs and wealth. But they have yet to give details possible tax cuts or spending and have avoided announcing a large-scale stimulus.Demand for Chinese exports weakened after U.S. and European interest rates were raised to cool record-brea...

Mar-a-Lago worker charged in Trump’s classified documents case to make first court appearance

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

MIAMI (AP) — An employee of Donald Trump’s Mar-a-Lago estate, Carlos De Oliveira, is expected to make his first court appearance Monday on charges accusing him of scheming with the former president to hide security footage from investigators probing Trump’s hoarding of classified documents. De Oliveira, Mar-a-Lago’s property manager, was added last week to the indictment with Trump and the former president’s valet, Walt Nauta, in the federal case alleging a plot to illegally keep top-secret records at Trump’s Florida estate and thwart government efforts to retrieve them. De Oliveira faces charges including conspiracy to obstruct justice and lying to investigators. He’s scheduled to appear before a magistrate judge in Miami nearly two months after Trump pleaded not guilty in the case brought by special counsel Jack Smith. The developments in the classified documents case come as Trump braces for possible charges in another federal investigation int...

As work begins on the largest US dam removal project, tribes look to a future of growth

Published Tue, 19 Nov 2024 10:27:01 GMT

SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) — The largest dam removal project in United States history is underway along the California-Oregon border — a process that won’t conclude until the end of next year with the help of heavy machinery and explosives.But in some ways, removing the dams is the easy part. The hard part will come over the next decade as workers, partnering with Native American tribes, plant and monitor nearly 17 billion seeds as they try to restore the Klamath River and the surrounding land to what it looked like before the dams started to go up more than a century ago.The demolition is part of a national movement to return the natural flow of the nation’s rivers and restore habitat for fish and the ecosystems that sustain other wildlife. More than 2,000 dams have been removed in the U.S. as of February, with the bulk of those having come down within the last 25 years, according to the advocacy group American Rivers.The removal of four hydroelectric dams along the Klamat...